I was talking to this girl. she and I were pretty much a thing, we had agreed to date sometime in the future, but we had just met so we would give it a little bit of time to develop and blossom and perfect itself. but it was pretty much set in stone. we only saw each other and I knew this for a fact. I can be a bit smothering In a relationship, but its because I don't want to lose someone. I did ask her to hang out a good amount, but we didn't go to the same school. so I didn't see her too much. anyway, my one friend that knew her as they went to the same school, would ask her about me. this girl, one day called me to tell me she lost feelings, that we should just be friends. it was very out of the blue. a week later, as im talking to the one friend that goes to her school about it, he says she told him that she lost feeling 4 days before she told me. I was devastated. he should've told me. not a major offense but I was upset about it.